I want to write a book, which I have like 10 pages done, but you see, I haven’t worked on it since I got a job that I like and since I found a partner to pour energy into.  Now work is only going to get busier, and summer is coming which means that I cannot put off socializing because its too cold to leave the house.  When will I write this book?  So that I can supplement my career with a publication?  No, in case you were wondering, the answer is to not give as much attention to this fictitious book that is actually nonfiction as I give to Marigold- she is not going anywhere, my fictitious self helps me in so many immeasurable ways.